When it comes to sensual foreplay, massage is a tried and true technique. It’s a great way to get your partner relaxed and in the mood for something more.

To make your next massage extra sexy, try these erotic tips:

1. Focus on the right areas

Knowing how to give a sensual massage can be an incredible experience for both you and your partner. It can help you learn more about each other, discover new aspects of pleasure and sex and can even bring your intimate connection to the next level.

During your sensual massage, it is important to focus on the right areas of the body. This can be done by starting with the erogenous zones and then slowly working your way down to the rest of the body. By doing this, you can build up anticipation and arousal while also making sure that your partner is fully relaxed and comfortable.

Another great tip for a sensual massage is to use music to set the mood. This can be anything from soft rhythmic beats to sexy, sensual music. Just make sure that the music you choose is appropriate for the situation. In addition to music, you can also use body language to set the mood. For example, if your partner is breathing more heavily in certain places, this could indicate that they are getting turned on.

2. Create a cozy and inviting atmosphere

When performing a sensual massage, the entire experience should be romantic and intimate. You can do this by creating the right atmosphere. This means eliminating any distractions and making your partner feel comfortable and desired. It also helps to use oil in your massage. This will help reduce friction on your lover’s body and will also enhance the sexy feeling of your touch.

Start the session by having your partner disrobe and lie down on a comfortable mattress or bed. You should dim the lights and play calming music in the background. It can be relaxing spa music or something more sexy like the sounds of the rainforest.

Then use oil to get a smooth and slippery surface to massage with. You can use scented oils or even just plain old olive oil. During the massage, you should use slow touching and try different techniques such as effleurage (long gliding strokes), petrissage (kneading, rolling, and lifting movements), and finally, friction (rubbing and stroking). Use this to seduce your partner and increase their pleasure by stimulating nerve endings throughout their body.

3. Don’t be afraid to give feedback

A sensual massage can be a great way to tease your partner and get them excited for more. However, it is important to remember that massage should be therapeutic and not just erotic. So, make sure to listen to your partner’s feedback and only go as deep as they feel comfortable.

This can be done by listening to their sighs, grunts, and squeals of pleasure. It’s also a good idea to try and anticipate what they will enjoy most by watching how their bodies react to touch. If they seem to like a certain part of the body, try massaging that area more often.

Performing erotic massage is all about tantalizing your partner’s arousal. So, if you’re not getting the desired results, don’t be afraid to ask for feedback. It’s important to know what your partner likes and doesn’t like so that you can give them a massage that will turn them on even more. Safe and sexy communication is key when performing any type of sexual activity. It will also keep you connected with your partner and ensure that the experience is enjoyable for both of you.

4. Keep it simple

Erotic massages are more than just regular massages – they are an opportunity for intimate connection and orgasms. This type of foreplay should be taken seriously and performed only as far as both parties feel comfortable. This is why it’s important to communicate clearly before you begin.

To get started, have your partner disrobe and lie down in a comfortable position. They can fully or partially cover up with a sheet if they wish. Then, dim the lights and light some candles to create a cozy atmosphere. Play some relaxing music and use aromatherapy to set the mood with sexy massage oils.

As you start massaging your lover’s body, try to tease them by using different parts of your hands. Then, slowly progress to the deeper muscles by incorporating effleurage and petrissage. If your partner feels horny, you can also lightly pinch their skin in the erogenous zones.

Don’t forget to listen to their sighs, grunts, and squeals of pleasure. These cues will let you know if they’re on edge and help you reach climax faster.

5. Incorporate toys

There’s nothing more erotic than giving your partner a massage. It’s a great way to bond with your partner, communicate openly, and create intimacy. Plus, it’s the ultimate foreplay.

Before you begin massaging, make sure you’re both comfortable with it, says sexologist Charla Hathaway, who recommends asking your partner “if there are any areas they don’t want touched or massaged.” If they say no, focus on touching their arms, legs, neck, and feet first—or even their head. Then slowly work your way up to their erogenous zones, like the buttocks or crotch.

You can also use music to set the mood, adds clinical sexologist Ness Cooper, who suggests slow-paced songs that will help your partner relax and enjoy their massage. And don’t forget to use a good quality lubricant for your hands. Remember that massage oils can break down latex condoms, so it’s a good idea to have some other forms of protection on hand. Adding toys to your erotic massage can also be arousing, such as a handheld vibrator or dildo, explains Atlanta Therapeutic Collective therapist Zoe Webb.